I know the title seems unreasonable so hear me out.
I have 4 children with ex, just under 2 years have passed and he has had absolutely no contact, that has been his choice. I havent seen or heard from him, no messages or calls on birthday christmas...nothing, no maintenance either. Hes seen our youngest child 3 times in her life, (almost 2 years old). As I said he hasnt paid a penny and has left me to raise them alone. This isnt the first time he has done this he disappeared when I was pregnant with the youngest and had no contact but came back after I had given burth and foolishly I allowed him to see them again only for him to disappear around a month later. Ive left him to it and just got on with things and havent contacted him. Last night I had an email from him asking for contact. I havent responded and quite frankly I do not want him back in their lives. He upped and left and hasnt made any attempt at all in 2 years. He was abusive to me (not to them) and he would never take them to his house. (only ever seen them at my house, again his choice. My 4 year old and 2 year old have never been to his house.) I know he would never take me to court for access so that isnt something I would worry about, wibu to ignore him? I had to pick up the pieces when he left and I dont want to do that again. I also wouldnt trust him taking them anyway for various reasons.
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Bobbycat121 · 19/03/2019 14:26
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