I was at a play group yesterday with my 17 month old DD. Whilst she was standing by a small ball pit, an older girl (about 4-5 yo) jumped into it and completely took it over as the ball bit was only tiny for small toddlers/babies I guess.
I didn’t mind as my DD was not interested in going in, but there were a few balls outside it which I started putting back in gently. She gave me such I dirty look and started shouting: stop it, stop it now!!! With a steely face that honestly scared me. I asked her nicely why are you shouting at me? She just carried on. Her dad who was a bit further away from us saw the incident and came over, took her out and asked to apologise, which she wouldn’t and didn’t.
They looked like a decent family, mum and dad were there, fully involved in their daughters play, didn’t seem to lack attention or discipline. AIBU to wonder where do they learn this behaviour?! Is this common?
I grew up in a country and era where you’d not even dream of talking like that to an adult, whether you are 4, 14 or 24.
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
AIBU?
To wonder where do they learn this behaviour
31 replies
Roomonthebroom1 · 18/03/2019 08:50
OP posts:
Don’t want to miss threads like this?
Weekly
Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!
Log in to update your newsletter preferences.
You've subscribed!
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.