I know I'm being unreasonable, in a way, but it's scary getting a mortgage.
I've got all of our finances down in an excel spreadsheet, to the penny basically. I know what we can and can't afford. Really, I've taken a mortgage for us that is a lot lower than what we can afford, it's almost £100 less than we pay on rent.
But with the fiasco the lender gave us today by not telling us in advance what forms we needed to have just stressed me out. We got it sorted during the call, but they knew we are first time buyers, they could have told us we needed that form and got no apology either. Just got 'oh you should have been told'. Plus the information we asked for was different from every person we've spoken to with this lender. Really need to stick to one lot of information, rather than confuse people by changing it daily.
Then came the sales tactics of 'you need to pay a fee to get lower interest' and 'you need this payment scheme to over you in death or illness'. And I got brushed off when I said that it sounded like ppi. I took neither option as we are covered insurance wise in the event of death through work so fine then. And if we do need it, I'm sure I can find something cheaper than £64 a month.
I'm happy we have got it now and it's basically in the hands of the lenders and solicitors now to proceed. We have done our parts as far as I'm aware but god they make it stressful. And scary, I mean it's a lot of money and I'm trusting these people to handle it, which hasn't gone well so far. We had recently switched account to them for a joint account and they somehow did that wrong too.
Just hoping it all gets processed fine and we get our house at the end of April. And now to find a fridge and washing machine.
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Deadbydaylight · 14/03/2019 17:51
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