Ok, so I have had the same ongoing problem with a friend of mine since I can remember,
Every time we have plans, usually when it is to do anything but stay in her house she cancels on me last minute. So instances where we have pre-booked tickets for things and spent money or make reservations and paid etc, she cancels the booking last minute sometimes on the same day. The most recent instance is we are due to meet Thursday afternoon for pre-paid lunch but she has pulled out.
I have confronted her about the issue previously so now her excuse is sickness every single time. I am really fed up and angry about it because I work full time and barely get time to see friends and family.
For instance this time she has cancelled I had offers to do things with my family that I turned down due to having pre-booked this and paid for it.
Now what do I do? I have no idea if the excuses is genuine or not which makes it tricky on how to confront. Do I say anything at all and if so, what do I say?
I feel like even if it is genuine the amount of times it happens is ridiculous so do I just not meet with her anymore or cut it down?
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Luc187 · 13/03/2019 15:07
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