So I haven't done this yet but am thinking about it. Namechanged as a bit outing
We have 3DCs and don't want more children. Up to now I have always been in charge of contraception. when I was pregnant, DH offered to get the snip which I gratefully accepted. DC3 is nearly 18 months now and he has done nothing about it. We are using condoms which he hates but I don't mind. However, I want to be really sure I won't get pregnant so am thinking of getting a Merina fitted again.
If I tell him, he will stop using condoms and never get the vasectomy he promised. The only leverage I have is that he hates using condoms.
WIBU to get the coil and not tell him?
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Ladyinglitter · 12/03/2019 15:18
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