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AIBU?

That instrumental delivery should be banned?

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PineapplePower · 12/03/2019 09:19

I know it’s the DM but this is shocking:

www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-6797199/As-doctors-midwives-finally-act-searing-expos-childbirths-shameful-secret.html

They say 10 percent of mums suffer from some sort of anal incontinence! Claims forceps are the biggest cause so why are they still used? AIBU to say they should be banned? Why couldn’t you just get a C-sec at that point?

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lilybetsy · 12/03/2019 09:21

You are displaying complete ignorance. No-one would wish to do an instrumental delivery, but by the time the presenting part is in the vaginal canal it is not possible to do a C section. Instrumental delivery is sometimes the only option to save the life of both mother and child.
Don't take your information from the Daily mail

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HollyGoLoudly1 · 12/03/2019 09:22

If the baby is already past a certain point in the birth canal then you can't do a c section. Incontinence is better than something happening to the baby, although obviously a horrible consequence for the mum.

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user1471426142 · 12/03/2019 09:22

Because it’s often too late for a section by the time an instrumental is needed. I for one am very glad an instrumental delivery was available otherwise I might have had a dead baby.

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Wolfiefan · 12/03/2019 09:23

Yep you’re displaying an amazing level of ignorance. Instrumental deliveries are far from desirable but are sometimes necessary.

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GruciusMalfoy · 12/03/2019 09:23

I'd presume because by the time a baby is low enough for instrumental delivery it would take extra time that they may not have to do a crash section.

YABU to read anything from the DM and post a thread like this.

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HarrysOwl · 12/03/2019 09:23

I thought this would be about mailing guitars and drum kits Blush

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Jellybean100 · 12/03/2019 09:24

Everything pp’s have said.

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Crockof · 12/03/2019 09:25

@harrysowl 😂

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VimFuego101 · 12/03/2019 09:26

The Daily Mail is not exactly a renowned medical journal. I do agree the damage they cause is worrying, but they are often used when no other options are available. What would you propose instead?

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keepforgettingmyusername · 12/03/2019 09:27

Instruments are only used when necessary. However there would be fewer instrumental births if there wasn't this pig headed attitude with pushing on with vaginal births despite it being obvious to everyone, especially the mother, that it isn't going to go well.

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ItsNiceItsDifferentItsUnusual · 12/03/2019 09:28

I've had two instrumental deliveries. One was awful (ventouse) one was absolutely fine (forceps). In both cases there was no other option (though I suspect forceps should have been used in my first delivery).

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raviolidreaming · 12/03/2019 09:28

My friend was desperate for a vaginal delivery, by any means. She declined a c-section in favour of forceps.

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Spiderbanana · 12/03/2019 09:30

That is a really interesting article.

With my 1st DC, they used foreceps without trying Ventous first, despite the doctor saying it was the easiest foreceps they had ever done.

I wonder whether the difficulties I had and still have could have been avoided.

Clearly they have successfully found alternatives to foreceps in Denmarl

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reallybadidea · 12/03/2019 09:31

Forceps (apparently) haven't been used in Denmark for 14 years. How do those who argue that forceps are sometimes essential explain that?

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Driftingthoughlife · 12/03/2019 09:31

It was all over my birthplace no forceps and at the end I was begging for them. They prob saved mine and my sons life as I was hemorring and his heart had nearly stopped. It happened so quickly that if hey had gone to c section I may still be here but I believe DS would not have been as they would have had to push him back up the birth canal which is a hell of a lot more risky then forceps with a baby who has a good heartrate

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Driftingthoughlife · 12/03/2019 09:32

I would like to see the success rates in Denmark of pushin a back up the birth canal in order to do a section.

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babysharkah · 12/03/2019 09:34

I thought there were significant risks involved in pushing baby back up to avoid instrumental.

OP by the time instruments are needed, if they were weren't, there would be a lot more mothers and / or babies who don't survive.

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Nomorepies · 12/03/2019 09:35

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Embracethechaos · 12/03/2019 09:38

Maybe I need to go over my notes as I nearly needed forceps but am not sure why. I had a long labour and not much food and fell asleep with epidural, woke up fully dilated, don't know what time. Doctor s thought forceps but midwife was very calm and told me she thought I could do it but I had one more chance to push. After she told me this it gave me just enough fear to get her out on my own. I remember trying to move off my back when I woke up but babys heart rate dropped if I went into my side. Also I had an episiotomy so maybe it was the blood loss that meant they considered forceps. The epidural satasfaction questionnaire they asked me in the morning (I raved about how great it was) had forceps written on it. I remember in NCT doing a birth plan and the main reason I didn't want an epidural was due to increase in forceps. It was a final resourt.

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TFBundy · 12/03/2019 09:39

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PineapplePower · 12/03/2019 09:40

Forceps (apparently) haven't been used in Denmark for 14 years. How do those who argue that forceps are sometimes essential explain that?

They aren’t used in my home country either. But we also have a high c-section rate, too.

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AndItStillSaidFourOfTwo · 12/03/2019 09:41

I've had two very positive ventouse deliveries with good recovery (despite an episiotomy and PPH after the first one) and minimal issues. They meant my babies were born in a good state (with dc2 it turned out the cord was round his neck twice, so it saved him a lot of distress and danger - his Apgar was 8 rising to 10 because they acted quickly at signs of distress).

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EatDessertFirst · 12/03/2019 09:45

My daughter and I would both be dead without an instrumental delivery. It was too late for C-Section. That is all the information I need to prove forceps have their place in delivery rooms.

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pisspawpatrol · 12/03/2019 09:45

If a c-section isn't possible when already in the birth canal, then why do failed forceps deliveries often end in a crash section? I don't understand.

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KnightError · 12/03/2019 09:45

Forceps saved my DC1's life, and mine. My parents (who ended up in hospital with me after things started to go badly wrong during delivery) had been warned to expect the worst. No, they're not ideal, and they were not on my non-intervention home-birth birth plan. But, like everything, they have their place.

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