Hi again...feeling slightly happy that I have something else to post about so quickly. Please bear with me as I have complete baby brain but do not want to drip feed....especially since I know you will all be so riveted by my story. (I am aware this is a little dramatic).
DH is a great dad, really hands on and will move heaven and earth for his girls but his husband skills get about a 7/10. Up until recently I have put all my my frustration down to pregnancy hormones...or as I call them 'breathe and I kill you' hormones. But baby is 10 weeks now and I suspect that he is just being a bit of a dick...
So here is where it gets pretty petty, but for some reason it was the final straw and I sprawled on the bed crying like a 16 year old who has just been dumped.
He ate all the donuts....(I know you are all feeling my pain).
Now there were 12, and they were an indulgent buy being Krispy Kreme...my DD (4) licked the icing off a couple and put a soggy leftover in my mouth but apart from that the greedy sod scoffed 10 (YES TEN) bloody donuts and didn't for one second consider me..
So yes I know it is just a bloody donut and I should get over it but I think this was a bit of a final straw and I ashamed to sat that this happened yesterday and I still not talking to him.
AIBU? Surely this is about considering the other person. I am 10 weeks PP after horrendous bladder trauma and blood loss from a csection and I still do everything (And I really don't mind that I do based on the fact that I know it is done properly). But I tend to be overlooked by DH and just don't fell like he really gets exactly how much I do..
So tomorrow I am not going to clean, cook, walk the dog, sort out his invoices, make the bed or do his bloody lunch. I am not going to clean the playroom that the DD 4 will have demolished in the hour before nursery and I am defo not going to have his dinner ready for when he gets home.
Just texted a friend to see if she is free for coffee and Gladys (my awesome next door neighbour) is going to have DD 4 for the afternoon. I have his credit card and think I will go out and buy my own bloody valentines and anniversary present.
Then when he walks in from work he will get a true representation of what I actually do normally do whilst he is pretending to work and probably eating everyone's bloody donuts...
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AIBU to be upset....p.s it really is not about the donut!
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Wantmyflipflops · 11/03/2019 18:43
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