I've been bed bound for just over a week with a herniated disc which is causing major irritation on my nerves down my leg. I cannot stand or walk. Im waiting for a referral to the spine clinic.
My husband has been going to work and then coming home and sorting kids, (1 who has special needs and requires all self care support) sorting tea and general house duties etc.
He was meant to be flying out to Portugal tomorrow (tuesday) for a 5 day golf holiday with his friends. Obviously this was booked and paid for ages ago.
There's no way I can cope without him here, he's repeatedly asked me this and he begrudgingly came to the decision last night that he can't go. We have no family support around us.
He's been really horrible since the reality has set in. Huffing and puffing, shouting at the kids. No compassion for the excruciating pain I'm in.
The kids are frightened to ask him for anything in case he blows his top. Yesterday he stormed out the house slamming the front door shouting he was about to 'lose it'. Everything seems an effort for him and he's constantly in a mood.
I've said to him I'm absolutely gutted with what's happened and the timing (and the money weve lost) but I do feel you're acting very childish. Your meant to be a man looking after your family and I feel like a massive inconvenience to you. Im usually the woman of the house who does absoloutely everything for them all they don't lift a finger so I feel like a massive hindrance but I would offer the support for them in a heartbeat.
I told him this morning best thing is he pack his bags and piss off to Portugal if it means that much to him. I just cannot cope with the stress.
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Bearlover16 · 11/03/2019 08:14
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