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Ok so just looking for abit of advise please.
I have had asthma my entire life and now don’t even realise I have it on a day to day basis, the only time I really need to take my inhalers anymore is when I come into contact with one of my allergies or if I have a cough. I have been with DP for 12years and him and everyone I know is aware I have a serious allergy to cats... Last year his mum decided to buy a kitten, now I’m not angry at this in the slightest, she has every right to buy one but it has now made it very difficult to visit her. She lives around 90mins away and we only ever visited maybe 4 times a year, we see her normally every 2 weeks when she comes to us for dinner or lunch. Ever since she bought the cat last May we haven’t gone to her home, we had just had a baby and I was breastfeeding and I couldn’t risk getting ill and needing to go into hospital and put on a nebuliser which has happened to me in the past. Now though if im being honest I just don’t want to, it’s not her, I really do like her but having to do a 3 hour round trip to then spend the rest of my Sunday sitting at home wheezing all night and probably not getting any sleep really doesn’t seem fair to me, especially as she can come to us. DP I think agrees with me because he hasn’t said any different, we barely see each other all week as he works very long hours and I think we both feel like why should we split up on a Sunday so he can go there with or without the children when she can easily drive to us. My reason for coming on here now and asking opinions is bevauS she’s now constantly trying to make up reasons for us going to her and it’s making me feel really uncomfortable because she knows why we haven’t gone, surely she thought about the repercussions of buying an animal I was so allergic to? AIBU?
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xmasbamechange · 10/03/2019 19:36
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03/05/2019 12:36
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