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AIBU?

To be really hurt and pissed off by my friend

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bagpuss90 · 10/03/2019 13:32

Okay -the old pelvic floor muscles are not quite what they were -I’m working on them tho. But I still like to wear a light pad “just in case” . I was out on Friday nite with my new ish partner, my friend and her bloke. Evening was going well but for whatever reason she felt the need to ask my partner if I’d told him about my Tena lady pads yet -dead silence .The conversation moved on -but all a bit awkward . I feel pretty bloody humiliated and reluctant to want to speak to her again. She’d had a few glasses of wine but even so ....My partner hasn’t mentioned it -I guess he wouldn’t but I feel like crap ☹️

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LazyLizzy · 10/03/2019 13:34

Your partner was probably embarrassed for you.

Your 'friend' is a cunt. Sack her off.

LeekMunchingSheepShagger · 10/03/2019 13:35

Your "friend" is an utter bitch and you should never speak to her again.

If your partner hasn't mentioned it he obviously isn't bothered.

livefornaps · 10/03/2019 13:37

Tell her what she said then block.

Samind · 10/03/2019 13:37

That's awful! Wine or not. That just isn't anything you share when you know it would cause embarrassment to your friend. Has she tried to contact you OP?

kalinkafoxtrot45 · 10/03/2019 13:39

Drop her like hot shit. She was clearly trying to humiliate you.

HeavyLocks · 10/03/2019 13:39

Wtf did she do that for?? Has she form for this kind of thing? Is she jealous or annoyed you have a bf? Did you say anything at the time? Wow what a bitch. for you

Kaykay06 · 10/03/2019 13:40

Nice friend!! Sounds jealous
Although my new man knew about my pelvic floor or lack of on our first date drank so much tea!!
Gussie grips on twitter helping me no end!!

HappydaysArehere · 10/03/2019 13:40

Do not trust her with any info that you don’t want broadcasted. Sounds as if she is a nasty jealous non friend.

LazyLizzy · 10/03/2019 13:42

Bet you she's got form for this.
I had a friend who liked to belittle me in front of men.

It was an insecurity, she had to be seen as the more fanciable female in the group so pulled other women down.

I sacked the bitch off after a very long friendship.

Bigonesmallone3 · 10/03/2019 13:43

What a bitch!
Who needs friends like that..
100% jealous

Topseyt · 10/03/2019 13:45

That is not a friend.

Text her now and tell her that you were mortified by this and the friendship is now over.

Who sits in the pub and publicly starts to discuss the contents of their companion's underwear? Nobody. You just don't do that.

DaveCoachesgavemetheclap · 10/03/2019 13:49

She's an utter bitch!

PiebaldHamster · 10/03/2019 13:51

Bitch! She's a manipulative person who negs and belittles to feel better about herself.

TwoRoundabouts · 10/03/2019 13:51

Your partner will be wondering about your choice of friends.

Don't bother with her anymore as with friends like that you don't need enemies.

sue51 · 10/03/2019 13:54

What a cow. Ditch her, she is not your friend.

Danni91 · 10/03/2019 13:56

Well that's just nasty

Grumpelstilskin · 10/03/2019 14:00

I have zero tolerance for these kinds of frenemies. Some years ago, an acquaintance tried to imply that I was shagging around in front of my now DH. I had never wanted to be friends and kept her at arm’s length. She was all sugar sweet but would make nasty digs when apparently drunk. I had been single for a while; the intent was to embarrass and slut shame me. I smiled and asked her all sickly sweet if her anus was still overstretched from her last cream pie anal gangbang. She was quiet after that. My DH told me he loved me that night...

BreastSideStory · 10/03/2019 14:01

Wow. Your friend is a massive cunt and not your friend at all

TonTonMacoute · 10/03/2019 14:05

Your "friend" is an utter bitch and you should never speak to her again

This! It says it all.

percheron67 · 10/03/2019 14:06

Horrible woman. I think this is what is known as a "toxic friend" I had one once, wish I had left her behind!! One evening, when out with friends, someone commented on my pretty shirt - cue for: Oh Percheron buys all her clothes at the Nearly New - didn't you know!!

Readytogogogo · 10/03/2019 14:07

She's absolutely not a friend. You'd be better off without her in your life.

BlueMerchant · 10/03/2019 14:10

She's obviously jealous of you to try to bring you down in such a way. Don't let her blame the drink- she will try.
Cut her off.

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Tinkobell · 10/03/2019 14:11

Nasty piece of work there OP. If you let her into your life again, I guarantee she'll repeat or worse. She's dreadful. Please drop her.

Heismyopendoor · 10/03/2019 14:14

She’s not a nice person. You deserve better friends. Doesn’t sound like she likes you very much.

liamhemsworthsrealwife · 10/03/2019 14:14

Sack her off. Block her on everything, don't even waste your breath telling her why. She knows.

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