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To be really hurt and pissed off by my friend

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bagpuss90 Sun 10-Mar-19 13:32:54

Okay -the old pelvic floor muscles are not quite what they were -I’m working on them tho. But I still like to wear a light pad “just in case” . I was out on Friday nite with my new ish partner, my friend and her bloke. Evening was going well but for whatever reason she felt the need to ask my partner if I’d told him about my Tena lady pads yet -dead silence .The conversation moved on -but all a bit awkward . I feel pretty bloody humiliated and reluctant to want to speak to her again. She’d had a few glasses of wine but even so ....My partner hasn’t mentioned it -I guess he wouldn’t but I feel like crap ☹️

LazyLizzy Sun 10-Mar-19 13:34:27

Your partner was probably embarrassed for you.

Your 'friend' is a cunt. Sack her off.

LeekMunchingSheepShagger Sun 10-Mar-19 13:35:50

Your "friend" is an utter bitch and you should never speak to her again.

If your partner hasn't mentioned it he obviously isn't bothered.

livefornaps Sun 10-Mar-19 13:37:28

Tell her what she said then block.

Samind Sun 10-Mar-19 13:37:29

That's awful! Wine or not. That just isn't anything you share when you know it would cause embarrassment to your friend. Has she tried to contact you OP?

kalinkafoxtrot45 Sun 10-Mar-19 13:39:12

Drop her like hot shit. She was clearly trying to humiliate you.

HeavyLocks Sun 10-Mar-19 13:39:45

Wtf did she do that for?? Has she form for this kind of thing? Is she jealous or annoyed you have a bf? Did you say anything at the time? Wow what a bitch. flowers for you

Kaykay06 Sun 10-Mar-19 13:40:45

Nice friend!! Sounds jealous
Although my new man knew about my pelvic floor or lack of on our first date drank so much tea!!
Gussie grips on twitter helping me no end!!

HappydaysArehere Sun 10-Mar-19 13:40:52

Do not trust her with any info that you don’t want broadcasted. Sounds as if she is a nasty jealous non friend.

LazyLizzy Sun 10-Mar-19 13:42:06

Bet you she's got form for this.
I had a friend who liked to belittle me in front of men.

It was an insecurity, she had to be seen as the more fanciable female in the group so pulled other women down.

I sacked the bitch off after a very long friendship.

Bigonesmallone3 Sun 10-Mar-19 13:43:54

What a bitch!
Who needs friends like that..
100% jealous

Topseyt Sun 10-Mar-19 13:45:42

That is not a friend.

Text her now and tell her that you were mortified by this and the friendship is now over.

Who sits in the pub and publicly starts to discuss the contents of their companion's underwear? Nobody. You just don't do that.

DaveCoachesgavemetheclap Sun 10-Mar-19 13:49:14

She's an utter bitch! shock

PiebaldHamster Sun 10-Mar-19 13:51:39

Bitch! She's a manipulative person who negs and belittles to feel better about herself.

TwoRoundabouts Sun 10-Mar-19 13:51:58

Your partner will be wondering about your choice of friends.

Don't bother with her anymore as with friends like that you don't need enemies.

sue51 Sun 10-Mar-19 13:54:01

What a cow. Ditch her, she is not your friend.

Danni91 Sun 10-Mar-19 13:56:29

Well that's just nasty confused

Grumpelstilskin Sun 10-Mar-19 14:00:08

I have zero tolerance for these kinds of frenemies. Some years ago, an acquaintance tried to imply that I was shagging around in front of my now DH. I had never wanted to be friends and kept her at arm’s length. She was all sugar sweet but would make nasty digs when apparently drunk. I had been single for a while; the intent was to embarrass and slut shame me. I smiled and asked her all sickly sweet if her anus was still overstretched from her last cream pie anal gangbang. She was quiet after that. My DH told me he loved me that night... grin

BreastSideStory Sun 10-Mar-19 14:01:23

Wow. Your friend is a massive cunt and not your friend at all

TonTonMacoute Sun 10-Mar-19 14:05:52

Your "friend" is an utter bitch and you should never speak to her again

This! It says it all.

percheron67 Sun 10-Mar-19 14:06:12

Horrible woman. I think this is what is known as a "toxic friend" I had one once, wish I had left her behind!! One evening, when out with friends, someone commented on my pretty shirt - cue for: Oh Percheron buys all her clothes at the Nearly New - didn't you know!!

Readytogogogo Sun 10-Mar-19 14:07:22

She's absolutely not a friend. You'd be better off without her in your life.

BlueMerchant Sun 10-Mar-19 14:10:09

envyShe's obviously jealous of you to try to bring you down in such a way. Don't let her blame the drink- she will try.
Cut her off.

Tinkobell Sun 10-Mar-19 14:11:50

Nasty piece of work there OP. If you let her into your life again, I guarantee she'll repeat or worse. She's dreadful. Please drop her.

Heismyopendoor Sun 10-Mar-19 14:14:09

She’s not a nice person. You deserve better friends. Doesn’t sound like she likes you very much.

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