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I divorced my ex on the grounds of coercive control, basically he terrorised me until I found the help I needed (via Mumsnet) to leave him. I have a son and daughter via him. DS11, DD10.
After we divorced I bought a property near to a local secondary school which I foresaw my son attending. All good.
My ex husband whist we were married told me he was attracted to teen girls (we were in our 30's at this time) which I was uncomfortable with. We got pregnant and have our daughter.
My ex said he looked forward to having our daughter's friends around for play dates. I felt sick at this as I knew he meant to lust after.
Since our divorce, ex has bought a property within 1 min walk from me & our children and actually backs onto the secondary school my son now attends. It's uncomfortable as he now watches me leave the house and go to shops etc.
Last weekend ex has persuaded his new neighbours to cut down (actually - he has cut down himself) some trees which previously shielded the school from his vision - he now has total visibility into the school fields and into various classrooms, due to the distance from his garden to school building.
My aibu? I'm worried for our daughter .. if he acts on his interests will it affect her? Or am I being UR and just let him look and not act?
To be clear, I hate him for what he did to me/my children and my judgement is likely clouded by that.
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Worried about my ex and his interest in teens
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WhoMoved · 08/03/2019 22:07
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