I'm just loosing my patience with him and have lost so much respect for him as a result.
A successful career, very confident but totally wet when It comes to anything to do with his parents.
He will "not hear" when they swear in front of our toddler because it's glaringly obvious he finds it uncomfortable telling them not to. When having a meal at ours they referred to non drinkers as "fucking dull" whilst I took a sip from my OJ, I don't drink and never really have (they know this) but apparently he didn't think it was rude or thoughtless to say in front of me. Told me I was huge and twice the size of SIL when pregnant and talked about my weight openly even 14 days post c section. MIL kept calling herself mummy when dc was 2 and laughed it off when DH said "I don't think so" that was all he'd mustered up after I repeatedly told him how much he upset me, so it fucking carried on for a while.
I've just lost my shit and gone nuclear on MIL for another boundary crossing and sick of my fucking wimpy DH when it comes to his parents. I know they gave him a great childhood and I appreciate that but he makes me feel like shit when he doesn't have my back. I've always had his back but he thinks if you're a grown up and have a problem, raise it yourself.
I probably am bu because I should just correct them myself but fucking hell he's really pissed me off.
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grumpypengyquin · 07/03/2019 22:57
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