NC for this. OH and I were bathing DD (14 weeks) in the shnuggle bath. He often takes his hand off her to chat with her or whatever. I was always told never ever to take a hand off of baby in case they slip and drown.
I said to him "you can't take your hand off her," as I have said before and he was annoyed with me, sulking and saying it feels rubbish that I think he is putting the baby at risk. I feel it's not likely she will drown but because the consequences are so serious it's not worth it. (DD is quite chunky and has a bit of head control so couldn't easily sink down but still seems risky to me).
To not drip feed: This is our first and I have had some nerves about the baby (mostly worried about SIDS) but don't treat her like a porcelain doll. I have much more experience with babies (looking after nieces and nephews, etc) than OH (who had none prior to DD). When other things come up I hold my tongue so as not to criticise OH (eg how he puts a nappy on, talks to her, etc.), so I'm really not nagging at him about every thing.
AIBU to be fucked off, or is OH?
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absolutelyfumingz · 04/03/2019 11:18
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