My son is only 4 months old. Me and his dad split up when I was still pregnant. I have. I qualms in saying I'm an excellent mother. All of my time, effort and money goes in to my son and ensuring he is well cared for. His dad is asking to see him 3x a week. One visit where I drive, one where he drives and one where we meet in the middle. He's about an hour away from me and I'm not sure how out son will cope with all of the travelling but we'll see...
Anyway. Even though my son is SO young, I have this overwhelming fear in my head that my son will prefer his dad to me, and will eventually want to live with him. I'm not sure why as I know I'm a great mum and my son seems pretty securely attached.
Has anyone ever doing this to happen? Am I being ridiculous? I have PND and am struggling with my emotions at the moment. Not sure if I'm being silly or not or if this is a normal fear...
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PepsiKhola · 03/03/2019 14:44
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