I'm a SAHP of two children, aged 2, and 4 months. I'm happily married to a lovely man. The thing is, I turned 35 last week, and have been fighting a wave of depression every since. I feel like an utter, pathetic failure. I have no career, and no skills. I feel like I've wasted my "best years", and cannot stop comparing myself to more successful peers (particularly fellow graduates from a prestigious university). I had a career in marketing before giving it up 2 years ago to look after the children - I can't really go back after so much time off (I'm very out of touch already!). I feel like I had all the opportunities in the world to build a good career, or travel, or learn skills etc., but I just bumbled along in a daydream.
Basically, I've had my babies and am thinking about the future, but aside from them (and don't get me wrong, they're glorious), it feels very sad and empty. How can I shake off this self pity?? Anyone out there door something fabulous a bit later in life?
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AIBU to think I've left it all too late?
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Skylucy · 28/02/2019 17:15
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