Me and DS go to a toddler group once a week and it's pretty good with lots of clean toys and the occasional activity, enough to keep the kids occupied for a couple of hours you would think.
However the last few weeks a Mum has been allowing her DD to bring a bag full of her own toys with her. It's causing so many problems in the group because naturally other kids want to play with these items too, if she leaves them and goes off to play with something else and another child picks them up as soon as she notices she rushes back to snatch them away again. Mum used to intervene and tell her to share but it has become so frequent she's stopped bothering. I now try to steer DS away from her toys to avoid the drama but it is a pain as there are so many of her toys there.
Also I've noticed her behaviour has really taken a dip since this has been happening, she has become really possesive over all of the toys at the playgroup (not just hers) and the snatching really is getting out of hand as it is so frequent and she has now started shoving children who fight back. I'm sure she has become a bit confused because the lines have been blurred between shared group toys and her toys.
The most irritating thing is that there is usually something that gets lost so the Mum tries to rally the others around to look for it, most mums (myself included) just ignore her.
AIBU to think leave your own stuff at home? I think I will have a word with the group leader about it, I don't want to stop going as my DS has really enjoyed it and I have been going since DS1 was little.
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MumofTinies · 27/02/2019 14:17
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