Hi everyone,
Just hoping for some advice on what if anything you'd do about the following:
On Sat morning, DH and I went to an event leaving DD13 at home (DS16 would get back in the afternoon). I left her a £20 note on the sideboard to get the bus to town which she does regularly and to buy a couple of bits for a school project. Said she could keep the change if any left over.
Got back at about 8pm to find DD had not gone to town or completed her project.
She told me that when getting ready, her schoolfriend 'Lucy' had called round. DD let her in, went to finish doing her hair in the bathroom, then had a quick chat and Lucy left. Afterwards, DD noticed the £20 was missing so could not go to town. She spent the day doing other things instead.
We checked and it has not dropped off the side (nowhere for it to be hidden) no other people or animals in the house. DH and DD saw me leaving it so it was definitely there.
DD said when she left bathroom, Lucy was in the area where the money had been left but DD didn't realise it was no longer there until Lucy had gone, DD had fed her rabbits and was ready to get the bus.
I do trust DD's version of events as whilst obviously not perfect, she is generally an honest and studious kid and was looking forward to cracking on with the project. I genuinely don't feel she has taken the money and lied.
Without performing a character assassination on Lucy, Ive known her as a friend of DD for years and whilst I don't know of any form for stealing, she has a bit of a manipulative streak and I have heard from DD over the years (who is very open with me) of a number of occasions at school she has been found to be fibbing. One especially was quite serious.
DD asked Lucy about the money yesterday at school of her own accord and Lucy denied all knowledge.
So, given I have no proof, it's DD's word against Lucy's, would you raise this with the school or her parents or just leave it? I don't know them well but they live locally. I'm not sure how they'd respond if Lucy denied it.
I mostly feel annoyed as DD was left unable to do her schoolwork and the shop needed was closed on Sunday so it's caused us a bit of inconvenience, plus, whilst we're not completely hard up, we certainly don't have money to be throwing away.
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To not know what to do about schoolfriend stealing money from DD
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ThisisanEcumenicalMatter · 26/02/2019 14:25
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