Hi
My husband and I separated late last year but so far all domestic/financial arrangements have been made informally between ourselves. My husband pays me an agreed amount at the start of each calender month.
Well this month my husband said that he would not be giving me the full months money as he was planning on taking my son away on holiday for two weeks during the month...this was never mentioned when we discussed my husband taking my son away...he seemed quite put out when I suggested that I did not think cutting the payment was correct as I had planned to buy school uniform etc from that months money...
Am I being unreasonable in expecting a full months money for this period that they are away?...my husband arguement was that he would be the one feeding my son so he was entitled to keep back the money...this despite the fact that he asked me to pay half the cost of the passport/buy my son new holiday wardrobe/arrange travel insurance for my son...I had already intended to offer to pay half the passport and fully intended to buy him new clothes but my husband told me from the start that he expected me to arrange all these things...in the end I put my foot down with the travel insurance...
The thing is if I had been taking my son on holiday I might have hoped deep down that his dad would help with the passport but I would never ever dreamed of asking....
Am I being unreasonable?
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bentneckwine1 · 06/07/2007 14:27
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