OLD is such a minefield, there's so much choice but how do you spot someone who really could be right for you when people write so little about themselves? When you go on dates, they're often a bit disappointing, many of the intrepid explorer types don't actually have much to say. So many of the profiles have virtually the same things written on them and there seem to be a lot of euphemisms. I thought it would be good if people could share the ones they've come across and perhaps help others spot potential red flags.
Some of the ones I've noticed are;
"Let's see what happens" - looking for a shag and no intention of forming a relationship
"Open minded" - you might find yourself being asked to do things you wouldn't be prepared to
"Polyamourous" - shags about
"Likes going out and staying in" - couldn't really get more bland
"Likes nice food, good films and nice wine" - because so many people like horrible food, bad films and atrocious wine
"Looking for someone to take me out of my comfort zone" - not very good at think of ways to occupy themselves
"Looking for my partner in crime" - 🤢
"My kids are my life" - of course they should be important to you, but expect to fit round their schedule
"No time wasters, gold diggers etc" - obviously but sounds very bitter
"I'm a nice guy" - run! No nice guy feels the need to tell people
"Adventurous, Likes abseiling, skydiving etc etc" - can't sit still for five minutes
"Time to settle down" - has decided they ought to stop playing the field if they want a house and a family any time soon
"Looking for an easygoing woman" - could mean nothing, often means someone who will put up with them being a slob
"You should be (lists criteria)" - a very passive aggressive type
"I like beautiful women" - has a wondering eye
You can also make what you will of topless gym selfies, posing with drugged up tigers, group photos with lots of women in bikinis, pictures of them participating in extreme sports and so on.
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OLD - what they say and what they mean
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lettymoo · 25/02/2019 17:18
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