So, I'm currently babysitting for a family I babysit for fairly regularly. 2 dc were already down, eldest dc aged 4 was just nearing her bedtime when she asked 'how does a baby get in a tummy?'
Now, I've worked with children my entire life, I have a degree in children! But none of my own. And I didn't really know how to respond! I know how I'd respond to my own child, with facts and terminology suitable for their age.
But this isn't my child!!! Now I'm second guessing what I said, and hoping if the child repeats it the parents will be ok with it. Here's how the conversation went:
Dc : What's that? (Pregnant woman on telly)
Me: I think she has a baby in her tummy
- confusion - In her tummy!?
Yes
Why?
Well, ladies grow babies in their tummies
No not in a tummy!!!!!
They do! You used to be in mummy's tummy when you were very small
Yeah, how does it get inside?
It grows inside, there's a tiny egg which grows into a baby!
DC seemed quite amazed, she almost looked at me like I was making it up! She then asked:
But how do you put the egg and the baby inside the tummy?
The egg is already inside the tummy, then it grows into a baby
How does the baby come out?
Ladies push the baby out of a special hole in their bodies.
She then said 'like this?' And did a pushing motion as if she was pushing someone over😂
I said not quite, like how you push when you have a big poo! Then the baby comes out! Then it was all over very quick because she got distracted.
Was that ok? Would you be happy if your babysitter explained it that way? I'll give mum a heads up when she gets back in case there are any questions or comments tomorrow!
I never thought that question would fluster me but it really did, I didn't want to say the wrong thing!