Moving city and even country isnt usually a problem. But my DH has just been offered an interview with a company 3hrs drive away, which definitely means a move. This time I'm hesitant.
The only reason I'm not sure is because of our DDs. One is in school and the other in nursery and both completely settled. We've brought up moving to the 6yo in the past because an interview came up for another job a bit ago and the 6yo was in tears at the prospect of it. She just doesn't want to leave her friends even though we put the argument forward that she would make new friends. My DH didnt get the job in the end so the topic was left.
If it wasn't for my DDs, I'd move. It's as simple as that. We've both made big moves for each other's careers before. Now we live absolutely nowhere near family (and we wouldn't with this move) but that doesn't bother us.
AIBU to say no just because of the wish of the 6yo (and the fear that we wouldn't get DD2 into another nursery because there are huge waitlists everywhere in the country we're in (not UK)? With everything else being a pro, this seems like a small con since she makes friends easily and would definitely make friends at a new school.
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In two minds about a move
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JAMMFYesPlease · 23/02/2019 19:58
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