So, dd (5) is going to a joint party this afternoon. Both girls are her friends, but one more than the other. The parents of the girl she knows less are pretty much CF’s, & very smug and sanctimonious. <br>Dd recently had her birthday, was given lovely gifts, but from the CF’s daughter received a small Mr Men book & a mini pack of 5 felt tips. <br>I am not grabby, but do feel like they were extremely rude - they are both very wealthy and their dd’s name wasn’t on the present, so perhaps they hoped they’d get away with it. Their dd proudly picked it out from the rest of the gifts to give to my dd, who was of course delighted with it. <br>So, it’s now their dd’s birthday & they have requested a bank transfer so they can buy their daughter a bigger present. I feel a bit peeved to be honest! We usually spend around £12-15 (school average) on each child, but I really object in this case. <br>The other girl is lovely, lovely parents, but the mum is quite good friends with the CF mum.<br>So, what do I do? Suck it up and transfer £12 each girl, or make transfers of different amounts just because I am pissed off? <br>WWYD please...and of course AIBU?