I have twins who are nearly 2.5 - they both have ASD and are non verbal so it does make it harder to gauge, but every time they seem really unwell I find myself staring at lists on NHS Choices wondering whether they’re properly ill or just a bit ill.
Twin 2 has been unwell for two weeks now - started with random high fevers and no other symptoms except that his feet are cold when he has temps (but then his feet are always cold). Now it’s a cough and runny nose with random high temps, although the last couple of days he seems brighter and has more energy. GP gave him the all clear a couple of days ago - no infection, no rash, must be viral. A lot of the kids at their nursery have had the same high temps, and DH has come down with the same bug yesterday. Lots of my friends kids are having the same fevers so it seems to be going round.
Putting him to bed tonight I noticed his skin is slightly mottled - I know that’s a red flag for sepsis / meningitis, but it’s not severe and he generally seems alert and well. He seems more well than he has done for a week, he has no fever right now, he seems okay except for the nasty cough.
There is some recession of his ribs but as a baby he was hospitalised for two weeks after having this severely and it’s nothing like as bad as that. His nose is blocked so I think that’s why.
Why is it so hard to tell how bad it is?! If he seeemed at all drowsy or not alert or floppy I would of course take him to hospital. Anyone else have kids that get a bit of several scary symptoms? I’m obviously keeping a close eye and if he goes downhill at all I’ll take him to hospital (he has open access). The one time he was seriously ill I knew it and called an ambulance but I always worry I’ll miss something crucial.
I think he just likes worrying me!
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Is it just me or is it really hard to tell when a child is properly ill?
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SinkGirl · 22/02/2019 19:48
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