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Dohee Fri 22-Feb-19 04:54:02

My dc 100% Well 99% I think.

My parents about 90% each

Nobody else lol.

ValleyoftheHorses Fri 22-Feb-19 05:12:25

DS, DH, my parents. That’s it.

MrsTerryPratcett Fri 22-Feb-19 05:14:50

In order...






Various friends and family members.

No one past DH would rush into a burning building 'love me' grin

Aquamarine1029 Fri 22-Feb-19 05:15:47

My parents, my children, my husband. That's it and that's all I need.

PlainSpeakingStraightTalking Fri 22-Feb-19 05:18:01

Odd question, Op . Are you ok ?

DramaFreeLife Fri 22-Feb-19 05:22:17

Most importantly the cat. 😂 But also OH, DS, DD, my inlaws and my best friend.

Parents are vile, not sure they are capable of love. It used to make me very sad, now I realise that the people that do love me and I also love are amazing and I'm very lucky.

If I feel unloved, I'll probably just get some more pets.

Decormad38 Fri 22-Feb-19 05:29:59

My DH (mostly) my dds, cat dog, at least 2 of my brothers. It’s debatable that the rabbits do.

Empathy56 Fri 22-Feb-19 05:35:09

My husband,my sister,nieces and nephews and my dog and

Empathy56 Fri 22-Feb-19 05:37:55

Oh and my brother.😀

whataremyoption Fri 22-Feb-19 05:44:59

My DS, DM, DF, stepdad, 2 sisters, 2 brothers, a couple of my cousins, an Aunty and two or three friends. Maybe my DH but who knows. I'm quite lucky really

TrainSong Fri 22-Feb-19 06:07:46

1 friend
1 of my aunties
My parents would loudly proclaim they do but it's not love as I understand it.
DCat might miss me a bit if I were gone. He's a deeply affectionate,loyal, dog-like creature.

OnlineAlienator Fri 22-Feb-19 06:29:01

DF, DM...exDH claims to. That's it i think?

OnlineAlienator Fri 22-Feb-19 06:29:30

DD, not DF, he's dead*

tattooq Fri 22-Feb-19 06:33:49

DD and my parents I guess. DP claims to but doesn't show it

justilou1 Fri 22-Feb-19 06:33:56

Dog - until DH comes home, then I am dumped. Traitorous beast.
Husband (despite erratic perimenopausal behaviour of late.)
No one from birth family - feeling’s mutual
My cousin who grew up similarly
Several friends
I’m luckier than most because I can actually say this confidently and without question.

WFTisgoingoninmyhead Fri 22-Feb-19 06:36:24

Their Partners (well my sil not sure about dil)!!
My dog
And I think our postman at work is extremely keen, it could be love on his part I am not 100% sure!!

Dohee Fri 22-Feb-19 06:38:05

I asked because everyone on MN appears to have a legion of friends and family that they suggest posters should turn to. I'm just wondering whether I'm unique in my loneliness!

why100000 Fri 22-Feb-19 06:38:34

My kids, but actually not sure sometimes as all 3 are teenagers and sometimes their rudeness is all encompassing. When they were smaller they would say they loved me, now, if asked, they would probably say they don’t.

My Dad and my sister.

My Aunt.

I think that’s it.

The cat - but she loves anyone who is kind to her for long enough.

why100000 Fri 22-Feb-19 06:40:07

Why do you feel lonely dohee?

NewAndImprovedNorks Fri 22-Feb-19 06:40:41

Oh Dohee, that is so sad.
Tell us how we can help you

Dohee Fri 22-Feb-19 06:42:01

I also think that if you've never actually really needed a friend you don't know whether they are or not.
I had 4 close friends until I fell on hard times. I now have none.

3in4years Fri 22-Feb-19 06:42:17

Mum, Dad, sisters
Dh, kids
Aunt and uncle
Two friends who live abroad

Dohee Fri 22-Feb-19 06:44:17

Lol, I'm good now. I know more now, but I was just wondering whether I was the only one. Not many people would have gone through what I have, so I guess their friendships have never been put to the test. If you asked me 5 years ago? EVERYBODY loved me. Lol

TearingUpMyHeart Fri 22-Feb-19 06:45:24

My dog

My kids

My siblings

My ex probably cares for me. My friends care for me. That's not the same as love, exactly.

My dog loves me the most

Monty27 Fri 22-Feb-19 06:52:02

Two DC's - young adults
Two cats because I feed them
3 DBs
A handful of friends and a few cousins plus a few nieces and nephews. Not bad in the great scheme of things.
It's more about those that dislike me that I keep my eye on.
a couple of sisters and a couple of others in my social group

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