I haven't worded the title very well but basically, this happened today and is like the perfect scenario of what happens to me
DP rang and said he'd spoken to friend and after a short backstory he said he'd got some tickets to a gig this weekend and did we all want to go, DP seemed keen and presented it in a way that I knew my reaction should have been 'that sounds awesome I can't wait'
For some reason though when he said it my stomach just dropped, it's happened before and an element of it is definitely the short notice aspect, but my instinct is to find any reason not to go and I don't know why! I like the people it is with, I do go to gigs sometimes although admittedly not as much now I'm older and usually only bands I really like but I can't put my finger on where the dread and panic comes from and it's frustrating! It's such a strong feeling I can't even pretend I want to do it so inevitably I look like an ungrateful cow and DP asked what was wrong etc and I just said nothing I cwas tired but it's pretty obvious my mood change when he said it. This is something that has happened many times in my life
I know I am bu really but I just wonder if anyone else feels like this and if they can shed any light on why!
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randomlygenorated · 21/02/2019 19:00
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