Haven't used MN in about a year since last time DS wanted to do something ridiculous
So, my DS is 16 and moved into his boyfriend's (19) apartment after he finished his GCSEs last year. I know it's rubbish there because they have pretty much no money but, surprisingly, DS did not come trailing back. Somehow, they've survived on the little money they have together. They come round every so often but DS does not ask for money nearly as often as I'd thought (I told him I would not pay any bills as I absolutely did not want him moving out).
But, DS was going to sixth form so I was happy that he'd have at least some options after leaving. But, he did his mock exams the week before last week and when I asked how they went, he said he'd failed them and was going to drop out. This completely shocked me as DS did very well in his GCSEs and I'm assuming it's because of the stress of living away from home and having multiple part-time jobs. After getting a little too annoyed, he said that everything would be fine and he'd just find a full-time job. I personally don't know many full time jobs a sixteen year old could get that pays decently.
I really don't want him to drop out as I know that he always wanted to go to university and become a vet but suddenly he no longer cares about this. He's a very clever kid but he just makes very stupid decisions sometimes and I don't know how I can stop him - I can't physically force him to go to school and I can't force him to return home and live with me.
Just very lost about the whole thing and have no idea what I'm supposed to do or how I'm supposed to help. Any thoughts?
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user1487546656 · 21/02/2019 16:17
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