Throughout my preganancy we haven’t had much communication with the in-laws. They haven’t called to see how I’m doing, asked about scans, the baby and my health (I’ve really struggled this time round) offered to help with our 3 year old BUT all of a sudden with the new baby about to arrive they are showing an interest! Allot of interest... constantly calling and texting asking for updates and asking us to keep them informed. Weve never heard from them so much. I understand the extended family are excited but surly there’s more to having a baby then the baby actually arriving.
AIBU for thinking “you didn’t care for the past 9 months why all of a sudden are you Intrested now, too little too late”
They show no intrest in my 3 year old infact they show no intrest in our little family at all. Feeling like a “newborn grandchild incubator” at the moment 😢 and not sure how much information I should tell them. I’ve spoken to my husband and explained it upsets me that they show no intrest in our lives (even there own son) until a new baby is about to arrive and he understands but won’t say anything but it almost feels like the baby will arrive and then like what happened with my 3 year old, after 6 months the novelty will wear off and we won’t hear from them again!
Not sure what to do, perhaps I’m looking into all of this too much but fed up of being treated this way X
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Sunshinesun · 21/02/2019 14:46
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