To not want her there?!

[RZNW]

DP and I have set the wedding date and all is running smoothly...so far.

Only hiccup is the guest list. He wants to invite one specific person I truly don't want there because she brings a dark cloud.

She's a colleague of ours (we work at the same place) and she is absolutely no threat to our relationship - she's happily in a relationship with a woman. But she's just downright fucking rude to me.

No matter how many times I try and engage in conversation or say hi to her, she blanks me. To DP though she's "hilarious and so friendly" 🙄

The girl even claimed at one point we'd never met. Whereas in reality she spent 2 hours in a meeting with me and only one other person so it's not like I got lost in a crowd.

Anyway, I've made peace with the fact you can't please them all and she simply doesn't like me for whatever reason. I don't particularly want her at my wedding though.

Thoughts please? I'm a bridezilla and should just chill the fuck out?

[comedycentral]

No way would I have her at my wedding. She sounds toxic.

[Spotsmum]

Put your foot down. She sounds awful and if she can't respect you, she doesn't get to taint your big day. This is a partnership and your partner has to have your back.

[woodwaj]

Nope. Not even a night invite!

[Mummyoflittledragon]

Just no. She sounds horrible. Your dp is struggling to understand the reality that some women can be total bitches to other women and soooo charming to men.

[BreakfastAtSquiffanys]

Since "she's never met you ", don't invite her!

[RZNW]

Thanks ladies

I should point out that DP isn't pushing really hard for her invite. But he's forever the optimist so when I explain what she's like with me he seems to believe I truly caught her on a bad day - 😂 I laugh because he says it like he really believes it's true.

You know how sometimes you just come across a bad seed. That's what I think she is 🤷🏻‍♀️

[GottenGottenGotten]

It's one thing your oh inviting a colleague you've never met, that's ok.

Is another thing inviting someone who is downright rude to you.

Yanbu.

[Yougotdis]

Tell your dp she’s your veto and he gets one too if there’s any of your friends on the list he doesn’t want there

[CFerdotcom]

Don't invite her. She'll just blank you at your wedding too! Life's too short for that kind of drama.

[Limensoda]

If your DP considers her a friend then invite her but you've said he isn't pushing it too hard so just tell him you don't like her so no invite.
Do people invite work colleagues to their wedding? I had some people I worked with at mine but they had become close friends who I socialised with. I wouldn't have invited colleagues.

[buckeejit]

No thank you to her

[Wauden]

No way should she be allowed to go to the wedding. She is trouble

[Aridane]

YANBU!

[KingIrving]

A weeding is about people who care for you and makes you feel good. Go for a drink with her after work at some point before or after the wedding, but is about celebrating a life together, a commitment, and why ruin the atmosphere with someone who makes you feel like shit.

[user1493413286]

Nope I wouldn’t have her there

[LazyLizzy]

Would I fuck invite her.

[Whatsnewpussyhat]

Why would you even consider inviting someone who clearly hates you to your wedding?

[RZNW]

Thanks guys.

@BreakfastAtSquiffanys your comment made me laugh! X

Somebody asked about inviting work colleagues...DP and I are emergency services and work horrendous shifts so the majority of our clique are colleagues - aside from family and small group of friends.

I really appreciate the general consensus of veto-ing her. She's got an outstanding resting bitch face and it'd darken my day seeing it in photos.

Such a shame because he says she can be so funny and I'd appreciate some hilarity in my life. Her loss.

[GreyGardens88]

Maybe she secretly has a big crush on you? And is acting so distant because she knows you're unattainable

[RZNW]

@Whatsnewpussyhat DP has a very small family in comparison to mine and so the list of people he wants to invite is significantly smaller. I didn't want to piss on his parade buy refusing to invite this girl x

[RZNW]

@GreyGardens88 that seriously never occurred to me! I feel bad now 😂 Seen as I can't figure out why she doesn't like me, I'm taking your theory as gospel - it's far better for my self esteem lol x

[Gruzinkerbell1]

Nope. No invite for cunty chops.

[dustarr73]

Nope. No invite for cunty chops.
That made me laugh

[AlwaysSomethingThere]

Nope. Off she fucks.

[Whatsnewpussyhat]

He should understand what a dick she is to you and why she shouldn't be at your bloody wedding!