Split with my daughters dad about a year ago, mainly down to him being lazy, not pulling his weight and generally being emotionally abusive. About 8 months ago I had a moment of madness, briefly let him back into my life and during this time he left an expensive jumper at my house. Today, 7/8 months later, the night before he's due to see our daughter for his once a week visit at his house, that I have facilitated since day one by dropping her off and picking her up, he decides he wants the jumper back immediately. I have no idea where the jumper is!!! I've moved house since then aswell! He then goes onto say that if I've lost or thrown it, he'll take its cost out of the measly maintenance payments he gives me. Or in his words "the money I give you". Money that took 6 months after we split for him to even start paying me! Going on to say how it belongs to him and he wants it back so he can wear it tomorrow.
This man has caused me nothing but shit since the day I met him.
So in response I asked him how how plans to pick our daughter up tomorrow since I refuse to help him out while he treats and speaks to me like I'm an idiot.
No reply.
AIBU? And does this seem like a carefully made plan to get out of seeing her tomorrow? Since I said I wouldn't drop her off I've heard nothing at all.
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To not drop daughter off anymore?
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galaxy101 · 19/01/2019 07:31
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