I am so bloody angry and upset.
I have a hospital appointment on monday. Or at least i think i do. Ive been very stressed about it.
I received a letter today telling me that it has been rearranged "as requested". I didn't request this.
Dp got home at about 3.30 today and read the letter. I didnt get in from work until 7.
Why in the name of all that is holy didn't he ring me at work and tell me. In fact i rang home about 5 to check something. No mention.
So i somehow manage to get through to somebody who is most put out that i dared to ring after 5 that their booking reception is closed. I explain that i have a procedure booked that i need to prepare for and i need to know if its still going ahead.
She was actually really blunt with me and said well you are booked in on monday at 11.30 AND the other date. I explained this would be a single appointment, no follow ups expected. Furthermore the appointment is at a different lication as to where i booked. I was told well Mr X can't be in two places at once and hes booked in at location A. My appointment is supposed to be in location B 30 miles away
I asked her what had happened but she could only access the appointments at the location she is at.
So where do i go? Have i still got an appointment? Ive had to prearrange time off work and i have to prepare for the procedure.
Why the fuck didnt my DP check this for me? Why didnt he call me so i had the opportunity to check for myself.
I am still not sure if i have an appointment or not. I suffer from anxiety and my main trigger is not knowing what is happening. Im already shitting myself about the appointment. He knows this but we have just had a blazing row and he fails to see why im upset
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LEMtheoriginal · 18/01/2019 20:11
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