I’ve been married to my DH for 10 years and the whole time we’ve been married I’ve been a practising catholic. He is staunchly atheist and our two dc have not been brought up to be religious.
My faith is a private matter and I don’t discuss it in the house as the children aren’t religious and I don’t want to have that discussion with them. They’re 8 and 5. They know i go to chapel but didnt ask about it and that’s fine.
I’ve noticed over the past year or so that my DH has started to openly mock me about being a catholic - in front of the children. He’ll tell them God isn’t real and only cranks believe in it and say “like your mum” he’ll be laughing when he says it but the children are picking it up and I can see an intolerance creeping in. I’ve told the DC that faith (or indeed atheism) is a personal choice and it’s not to be laughed at.
I tend to go to mass early on a Sunday morning but a couple of weeks ago I missed it and went out on a Sunday night while my DH was at his brothers. I popped in to BILs to see them and their kids and my DH said in front of his family “oh she was at chapel. Yeah I know CHAPEL! She’s one of those weak minded folk who need religion.” They laughed but never said anything. I decided that that was my cue to go home and I rounded up the kids. My DH was annoyed that “I’d caused a scene.” I don’t think I should have to stand being mocked
Anyway, I suppose this is more a WWYD? The kids aren’t religious, there is no sign of religion in my house and I don’t discuss it other than it seems to defend myself.
I know people on here probably aren’t religious but I feel like I shouldn’t be embarrassed by my DH for quietly having a religious denomination.
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Itwasbestoftimesworstoftimes · 17/01/2019 10:26
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