Hi. I'm a 2nd 3rd time mum to twins and had them prematurely. One is still in hospital and had a very traumatic time, and I have appointments for pediatricians, speech and language, dieticians, cardiologists and other specialists. I already have an older child with extra needs and so have lots of appointments for him too.
I don't see what advice a HV could give me as I'm already under such specialist care. My twins had extreme problems and aren't typical prems according to the nicu either so need specialist follow ups. We had the metabolic team involved at one point as they were concerned one had an inborn error of metabolism but thankfully that turned out to be okay.
I feel like waiting around for HV appointments would be too much when I already have so many and that I just want to be as normal as possible. I declined the Child Health Surveillance thing when registering them. I explained my reasons as above and the receptionist still seemed suspicious.
I now can't stop thinking they're going to refer me to SS or flag me up as difficult. I have anxiety and I keep thinking they're going to use that to say I'm unstable and need extra watching.
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To refuse health visitor?
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Seline · 11/01/2019 05:29
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