I’m due baby number 3 at the end of March. Partner has just asked me if I’d be ok with him going away to Germany to see his friend who is in the army, for 4 nights, 3 weeks before my due date. I asked if he could go sometime this month or during February but he says he can’t as his friend has other commitments...training...etc.
I don’t want to say to him not to go but I do feel it’s a bit close to when I’m due. Both of my DD’s came early and my labours were really quick (3 and 4 hours) so I know if I went into labour while he was there there’s absolutely no way he would get back on time for the birth.
Would I be unreasonable to say I’m not ok with it? I know if I say I don’t want him to go, he won’t.
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Partner wants to go away for 4 days 3 weeks before my due date - need help with this one
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Baileyswithice1 · 07/01/2019 20:27
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