I'm furious. I'm seriously massively at the wanting to flip stage
I've staying with my parents for the weekend and my DF has been off in one all weekend. Apparently he hates how I come in to his house and 'make demands everywhere'.
I tried to clarify what he meant and got nowhere apart from him saying how much he hates how I 'demand' that we change things because of the children.
From what I can figure out, he's pissed of that when I visit he has to adjust his routine to factor in two very young children.
He hates how we have to feed them earlier.
He hates that they make noise.
He hates that they have baths in his bathroom.
He hates that they play with toys in his absolutely enormous house.
He hates that they stay in rooms that he never uses (and therefore doesn't affect him)
He hates that they go in to say hi to him when he's in another room.
My mum was so so angry with him. He basically made out that he never wants us to come again. My kids are actually really quite sweet and well behaved so I know it's not them just being dicks. He really has a massive issue with change.
This makes me very very concerned. Alzheimer's runs in his family and I'm wondering if he's going down the same route. He had kids. There were lots of us and he never behaved like this...
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Grammarist · 17/12/2018 02:33
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