Hi all, this isn’t a simple one.
I’ve been with OH 6 years. When I met him he was living with his mum and bought his house 6 months later.
His mother has been in a relationship with her partner for around 10 years.
When my Oh bought his house MIL asked if he could tell the council her partner was lodging at his new house so she could carry on claiming a single parent to her younger children, despite hat he was already living at her house (he had previously rented his own flat but pretty much lived there) My partner felt pressurised to agree and did so. I felt like I had no right in this decision as we’d been together a matter of months.
A couple years later this was still the case but I moved in and I told my partner to let his mum know that it has stop. I didn’t want this going on anymore. She took 6 months to sort it out so I worried about it constantly. All his post come here. It was pretty embarrassing. It’s a small village where the postman knows everyone and he must wonder why we got post for a man he’s never seen here.
So it finally stopped. Yet my mother in laws bloke has yet to change his address on everything. We are still getting post for him.
We keep getting letters regarding his deceased mother from the council. I haven’t opened them obviously but his mother’s house still lie empty as far as I know. We gotta feeling it’s council tax bills. We are worried it will affect our credit as they are being sent to our address and there also letters being sent for him about his Mum from the bank!
I keep emailing the man to pick his letters up. We don’t get chance to drop them off very often but we have a massive pile of letters for him and others regarding his dead Mum and it’s annoying me.
I’m tempted to return them to the sender so hopefully the post will stop!
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JKCR2017 · 15/12/2018 15:08
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