My DD is due in to hospital today for a procedure ( albeit in the grand scheme of her life not major )
This will be her 28th time under general anesthetic so not something we are new to but to me every time feels the same now.
Her dad hasn’t messaged mine you I’m not sure why that suprise me and I know absolutely no will message ( my mum and sister etc ) to see if she is ok this evening.
They do love her but I feel because she has a serious chronic condition people just think it’s our normal. I have sooken to this about it but nothing seems to change.
My mum does visit if we are in ( she works in the hospital haha )
sisyer very local and tbh most of the time barely messages to see if she is ok.
( she will visit maybe once a fortnight in hospital )
But is great when she is home and doing well.
My friends no longer visit when we are in.
There is no more offers of do you need anything bought up or a hot meal !
( we were in hospital for 20 months straight ) and mutiple admissions since.
I just feel like it’s become so normal to everyone but me.
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Alwaysbekind2014 · 14/12/2018 06:45
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