Been with dp 5 years, baby no. 2 due early Feb. We haven't had sex in nearly 8 months
Once since we fell pregnant.
He isn't weirded out by me being pregnant- I know that for sure. He just has no libido at all.
It's actually been like this since I was pregnant with our first dc. We just go through phases where he actively tries. And then it fades again.
It wasn't like this when we first got together, I understand he works terribly hard for our family and he is tired, I dont bring it up at all now. It used to be a frequent topic but would always end with DP saying something like "I know, I promise I'll try harder". But I don't want him to have to try
It shouldn't be forced. I don't want him to force it. I don't want to pressure him, but he's reluctant to see a doctor as he says he's only 32, it shouldn't be an issue.
I've tried everything- tried to surprise him, dress up for him before I got really pregnant. I love him very much, want it to work, not sure if I can live like this forever and would hate for dp to ever feel like he's not enough.
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MrsVargas · 11/12/2018 18:41
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