My son is Aug born and one of the youngest. In yrs R and 1 his teacher was strict. He genuinely had glowing reports and she had no concerns. She made one passing comment that he can occasionally be a little boisterous but she said hes young and likes to have fun. She said she had no concerns and wasnt misbehaving.
Im now being told by his yr 3 teacher that he is easily distracted, messes about and sometimes back chats. She gives him several warnings before taking action and isnt very strict. My son responds well to firm boundaries and discipline. She said in yr 2 they try to encourage them to choose the right behaviour rather than in yrs r and 1 where theyr are just told what to do.
She said his behaviour is getting worse and whilst at the moment academically hes doing well this will slip if his behaviour doesnt improve... one e.g is in assembly he doesnt sit still, he figits and messes around however when hes fully engaged he sits and learns/plays really well. Im firm at home.
I have noticed even in yr r and 1 but im noticing it more now that in say a school play or singing, the others stand quietly and sing or just listen whereas he figits, laughs or looks around and forgets to sing. He doesnt have adhd or anything else.. hes not that bad i dont think (but could be much better) .. but essentially hes just a happy, excitable little boy who's easily distracted and isnt great at sitting silently! Has anyone else gone through this?
I wish id held him back a year now as hes not mature enough to start juniors next year but i think its too late now (i.e. get him to re do yr 2 - in another school).
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Desperatetobeamummyonedaysoon · 10/12/2018 10:47
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