I feel a bit resentful as I don’t feel like his life has changed since we had our baby 3 weeks ago.
For example I do all the night feeds, all the nappy changes. When he’s crying at dinner time it’s me that doesn’t eat as I have to pick him up. Silly things like I want the lamp left on as baby stirs in a night feed when lights are turned off but partner turned it off anyway.
He seems to be doing normal life like playing football etc whereas I’m lucky if I have 5 minutes to get showered.
For example tonight he got in from work and had already eaten dinner etc and I still had to hold baby whilst trying to eat one handed
He did lots of housework and cooking during paternity but I feel like he sees the baby as my problem not his.
Sorry I’m so tired and hormonal and just wanted it off my chest.
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newmum1611 · 07/12/2018 00:15
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