It was my birthday yesterday. My parents and my IL's both gave me money to buy what I wanted.
This morning I went for a lovely child free trip round town and treated myself to some things. Things that genuinely make me happy and bring me joy. I took a picture and posted it on IG.
My friend then text asking why on earth I'd spent my birthday money on things for the house.
For info, I bought a gorgeous set of brushed cotton bedding from M&S, some new wine glasses, a candle and some nice Molton Brown bath foam. I can't tell you how excited I am to have a bath and go to bed tonight!
But my friend thinks these are normal household items, enjoyed by my DH too, and therefore should come from our joint account and I should get to spend this money on treats for me. I don't think she gets that these ARE treats for me!
We're not destitute but neither are we massively well off and I'd never drop £100 of family money on frivolous items. There are much better things to do with that (like clothes for DS or savings)
For background, at Christmas, DH got money from his parents and bought a new set of pans, so this is a view we both take.
So should I have saved that money for something just for me (not that there was anything I wanted) or was I right to spend it on what I consider to be luxuries??
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Are these things luxuries or normal household items?
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Teatimeted · 18/11/2018 13:44
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ajw88 ·
18/11/2018 14:15
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