So yes, I am being V U, because I'm using AIBU solely for traffic - posted this on 'back to work' and got nothing and infant feeding is also quiet, and I can't get any advice on this in real life SO:
I have slowly come to the realisation (spurred on greatly by the discovery today that all my frozen milk is rancid) that when I go back to work in a month and a half I really, really don't want to express breastmilk during the day. So far DS is exclusively breastfed, and has only ever been given bottles of expressed milk, which he takes fine (when it isn't rancid!). He'll be six months when I go back (full time), and DH will be on shared parental leave with him for the first four months after I go back. I just have some questions about switching to mixed feeding, with DH giving formula in the day and me breastfeeding when I'm around:
- How do we best transition DS so it upsets him the least? Do all babies who take bottles take formula (I've never heard of one refusing, but is that a thing?) - will we need to try different brands, etc. to find one he'll take? Should we try and add a bottle a day gradually before I go back to work? I don't think he'll take a bottle from me so that'll be tough while DH is still at work.
- Presumably at this point my supply's established enough that it will cope with only breastfeeding morning and night (that's what people do with toddlers, right?)? Will I be able to feed him during the day at weekends, or will that leave either him hungry or me engorged during the week? I'll be working from home some days and so could feed him then, but presumably my boobs can't work out when it's Tuesday?
- Can someone reassure me that this is all going to be alright?! Feeling very anxious about it.
Thank you for your wisdom!