I’ll try and cut a long story short, but I’m feeling really emotional over this so Im not sure if my judgement is clouded.
Dd (15) has applied for the army, but there was a mix up with her medical records and somebody else’s, and her medical fitness was failed. So to prepare for the appeal we’re doing, we needed to request all of dds medical notes from our GP. I was told because dd is over the age of 12, she had to request and sign for them herself and physically hand them over to her, they couldn’t even speak to me on the phone for confidentiality, fair enough I thought.
Dd has been off all day, really upset, then she completely broke down tonight and it turns out it’s because of something she saw in her records.
She had been reffered to camhs many years ago, because I asked them to look at her because of my own mental health issues and I was worried about the affect on her. She knows about this, I’ve always been as honest as I can about it. She went twice and they weren’t concerned enough to take it any further.
The referral letter was from my psychologist at the time (one who i horribly clashed with and wished I’d put in a complaint about at the time for a different reason) and there in black and white was a complete list of all my issues, from severe trauma in my own childhood, to being sectioned when I was pregnant with my second child and all about me being suicidal, including the psychologists own opinion on why I was that way. There was much more but I don’t want to derail the thread too much. I’m so angry that all of this was literally handed to my 15 year old to read, and she now knows that her mother tried to kill herself.
Is this even legal for them to do? Do I complain to the gp, the psychology service? Aibu to take it further, or we’re they completely in their rights to do this?
I didn’t think I’d be sitting tonight comforting my dd, who’s petrified about what she read.
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padwalk · 08/11/2018 22:21
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