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To remove my coil and not tell dh?

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tinatantrum Mon 18-Jun-07 23:08:14

it came out today and I've not said a word!

cornsilk Mon 18-Jun-07 23:09:00

So are you hoping to get pregnant then?

BrothelSprouts Mon 18-Jun-07 23:09:39

If you're planning on getting pregnant without discussing it with him, then yes, YABU.

Blu Mon 18-Jun-07 23:09:42

Um, a bit more than 'unreasonable', if you deliberately get pg without telling him what's happened!

tinatantrum Mon 18-Jun-07 23:10:18

I'm not sure I guess yes but he is a definate no.

bookthief Mon 18-Jun-07 23:10:44

If you're hoping to get pregnant and know he's not keen/haven't consulted him then absolutely yabvu. Sorry.

unknownrebelbang Mon 18-Jun-07 23:11:10

YABU.

Blu Mon 18-Jun-07 23:11:18

Don't do it.

tinatantrum Mon 18-Jun-07 23:11:22

I have warned him in the past that I'd trap him and I think he half expects it

octo Mon 18-Jun-07 23:11:26

blimey Bit mean not to tell him.

sallyheartshapedstrawberry Mon 18-Jun-07 23:11:38

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

unknownrebelbang Mon 18-Jun-07 23:12:07

trap him?

toomanydaves Mon 18-Jun-07 23:12:32

youare.

octo Mon 18-Jun-07 23:12:33

I retract that last statement - a bit mean is a bit of an understatement.

tinatantrum Mon 18-Jun-07 23:12:39

yabu - please explain I don't recognise abrieviation sorry!

BrothelSprouts Mon 18-Jun-07 23:12:53

You're kidding, surely?

BrothelSprouts Mon 18-Jun-07 23:13:13

YOU ARE BEING UNREASONABLE

Blu Mon 18-Jun-07 23:13:27

Oh, well get on with your own two games, then.
Conception is such a laugh, isn't it? Conceive a child, what's the difference, only another baby....

unknownrebelbang Mon 18-Jun-07 23:13:35

yabu - YOU ARE BEING UNREASONABLE.

tinatantrum Mon 18-Jun-07 23:13:46

I don't want to have an only child but I don't want to fight a fight with no compromise.

flibbertyjibbet Mon 18-Jun-07 23:13:55

I can't beleive you are actually thinking of not mentioning it. I didn't think the things could just fall out, are you going to tell us you have had it taken out deliberately and not going to tell him?
Outrageous. Deception. Entrapment.

sallyheartshapedstrawberry Mon 18-Jun-07 23:15:02

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

BrothelSprouts Mon 18-Jun-07 23:15:12

Did you not discuss how many children you would like before having the first one?

cornsilk Mon 18-Jun-07 23:15:32

If you're so desperate to be pregnant then you need to tell him that, not trick him into it.

tinatantrum Mon 18-Jun-07 23:16:04

I want 2 he wants to stick at 1 where do you go with that. I know I am being unreasonable but then surely so is he.....
I'm not a bitch and I'm not taking this lightly.

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