NC as I know SIL is on here.
So that I don't drip feed I'll start by saying I have a very limited conversation with MIL. She has done some things in the past that when I posted on here people agreed with me she was out of order. However we have put this behind us and while I accept I won't ever get an apology I have decided to move forward for the sake of my dh and any future gc. I currently see her once every few months (we live about 4-5 hours away) and I remind my dh to keep in touch with her etc.
This works for us (most of the time!).
Anyway yesterday I got a text from a number I don't know saying 'MIL passed on your present today. Thank you for the lovely gifts, I had a wonderful birthday.'
I had no idea who this was from. I asked DH thinking perhaps he knew what it was all about and he too knew nothing. He rang mil and it transpires she had given her friend a gift from us (and my number so she could thank me). I have met the gift recipient once many moons ago at SIL wedding. Dh knows her as 'auntie x' but again hasn't spoken to her in years. There is no reason we would buy this woman a gift.
Aibu to be annoyed by this? Mil does it all the time. She gives distant cousins, aunties, uncles etc gifts and we get thank yous left right and centre when we have done nothing! It can be quite embarrassing when we are put on the spot! I am more than capable (and do!) buy gifts for people who we usually would buy for!
I don't know if I'm being unreasonable because one of my past issues with mil was her interfering (for example when we got married she made an appt at the florists and changed flowers 'on my behalf'). So maybe I'm just over reacting on this!
Please tell me if I'm just being a cow. 😩
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blueberryandrhubarb · 17/10/2018 18:25
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