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To let DD wear this dress to a wedding?

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veruka Mon 24-Sep-18 20:36:14

My friend thinks it's unfair on the bridesmaids/bride?

DesperatelySeekingSnoozing Mon 24-Sep-18 20:37:38

Yep. Don't put her in that. Looks like you're desperate for her to be a bm/flower girl

SweepTheHalls Mon 24-Sep-18 20:37:48

How old is DD? 3, fine, any bigger nope.

CatsGalore Mon 24-Sep-18 20:37:58

YABU totally a bridesmaid dress. Even says it is. Put your child in since pretty normal dress or you will be THAT mother!

Croatoan Mon 24-Sep-18 20:38:29

Nooo. No. Don't. Lots of pretty colourful dresses out there.

happymummy12345 Mon 24-Sep-18 20:38:48

Unless she is a flower girl or bridesmaid then no, don't put her in it

veruka Mon 24-Sep-18 20:39:01

Oh dear. Said DD can wear it (she begged) there's going to be lots of tears. It's completely my fault, I didn't see the issue.

She's 4.

thecatsthecats Mon 24-Sep-18 20:39:05

You'll get answers saying it's fine, answers saying it isn't. Listen to the ones saying it isn't. It doesn't matter what your daughter wears provided she doesn't look like a wannabe bridesmaid. That dress advert literally has bridesmaid written all over it. Just pick something else.

Newjobnewstart Mon 24-Sep-18 20:39:06

I wouldn't put my dd in a dress like that for q wedding, loads of gorgeous stuff without getting an actual bridesmaids dress. Are you annoyed she wasn't asked and making a statement?

FuckyDuzz Mon 24-Sep-18 20:39:13

It’s a flower girl dress - if she’s not a flower girl then of course she shouldn’t wear it confused

PiperPublickOccurrences Mon 24-Sep-18 20:39:22

It even says "flower girl" on the description! Steer away from white. Choose something with a pretty pattern.

Tink2007 Mon 24-Sep-18 20:39:36

It says it’s a dress for a flower girl. Choose something different.

cushioncovers Mon 24-Sep-18 20:39:42

Looks like a flower girl dress. I wouldn't

Sparklesocks Mon 24-Sep-18 20:39:56

That’s a flower girl dress, it will confuse people at the wedding. If I saw a little girl at a wedding wearing that I’d assume she was in the bridal party.

Bestseller Mon 24-Sep-18 20:40:07

No don't do it. DD (assuming she's tiny) will be fine but everyone will think you're v odd and there's potential to offend the bride too

veruka Mon 24-Sep-18 20:40:07

We already own the dress, hence I said she could.

ladyme Mon 24-Sep-18 20:40:12

She's 4, it's fine! Most little girls party dresses look like that and little girls like dressing up for weddings. Enjoy it while you can.

Littlechocola Mon 24-Sep-18 20:40:31

Ask the bride. Easy.

Soubriquet Mon 24-Sep-18 20:41:59

That to me is just a party dress. It’s pretty. I wouldn’t have a problem with it

LokiBear Mon 24-Sep-18 20:43:23

Id put a pink cardigan with it. I think its fine. She is 4.

PorkFlute Mon 24-Sep-18 20:43:29

I wouldn’t have a problem with it but I strongly suspect some people would.

Croatoan Mon 24-Sep-18 20:43:44

What about this?

sadnessin Mon 24-Sep-18 20:43:54

Literally says

"Perfect for bridesmaid or flower girl duties" on the description!

PiperPublickOccurrences Mon 24-Sep-18 20:44:08

It's really not fine - it's not a party dress, it's a flower girl dress. If you make it into a treat to go shopping and choosing something new you won't get tears.

TulipsInBloom1 Mon 24-Sep-18 20:44:17

Thats a flower girl dress.

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