So a bit of back story-
This girl (T) and I were friends from 1st grade till a few years after high school, so we were quite close. She got a girlfriend and started not talking to me for some reason. She likes to spend all her time with her girlfriend- ok fair enough. This apparently also means she doesnt want to talk to me because she wouldn't ever answer my calls or rarely respond to my texts
One day out of the blue she asks me to catch up and to bring my camera so I go to her place and she wants me to take photos of her proposing to her girlfriend. I take the photos and it's all lovely- then I dont hear from her for a year, in fact once I saw her walking in the shops so I called her phone and she looked at her phone and then ignored my call . After that I didnt bother forcing my friendship if she didnt want it.
It's now been about 1.5 years after that and I get a message from her. Shes getting married on an island and wants me and DH to come. She also wants me to be her MOH . We had a look at the island and it's a luxary resort and we will have to spend quite a bit of cash on flights, cash we are trying to save for a new house. I messaged her and told her we are really sorry and wont be able to make it but if theres anything I can do to help I will. She read the message but didnt reply and I heard from someone else that shes really annoyed that her "best friend" isnt going to the wedding.
Who is BU? I feel a bit bad about not going and if it was closer I would go but I'm not prepared to shell out over five thousand for someone I didnt think was a friend
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ChocolateToffee · 24/09/2018 01:57
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