Been separated almost 4 years. He was abusive and frankly has been a shit dad. Past few weeks he’s been friendly. Messaging asking how the kids are etc. He’s had them this weekend for the first time in 6 months. He sees them 2ce a year! He’s a rubbish father, doesn’t provide etc. But the kids like to see thei grandparents.
Anyway, he always becomes vulgar and makes me uncomfortable!! Dropping the kids off on Friday I gave the kids a kiss and he said “what about me” I said not an chance. He then said well he would rather grab my bum. Honestly he makes my skin crawl and it scares me!
Tonight he’s texted out the blue to say a porn film looked like me and he misses it. Iv messaged him and said he’s overstepped the mark and it makes me feel uncomfortable.
I hate it!! I have a fiancé and a child. Even if I didn’t I wouldn’t like it!! I feel like ifs definitely some sort of abuse he likes to do.
Wtf do I do?! I’m dreading collecting the kids!!
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Mummysharkdoodoodoo · 22/09/2018 23:49
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