I've been with my boyfriend for 16 months. We have taken things slow, don't love together and still have quite separate lives. We haven't met each other's friends or family yet.
Today I got an invite for a wedding in February and my boyfriend is also invited. I text him telling him. He replied with 'that's great but I'm dying' (he already told me he had a cold). I responded with 'you have 5 months to recover 🤣🤣🤣' he replied with 'I may still be ill then' I replied with '🤣🤣 that's a bit extreme'. He replied with 'I dunno, I feel pressure rubbish'. I replied acknowledging this but said it's 5 months away. He then changed the subject and said good night. Am I being unreasonable to feel like it was inadvertently trying to say he doesn't want to come? Or is he just being like this because he feels ill and is ages away so doesn't need to worry about it? To add a bit of context he never gives straight answers which I thinks he does to avoid discussing certain things, and I've also had concerns before about his commitment.
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pleasecomebacksummer · 22/09/2018 23:41
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