Sorry if this is long but I really need advice on how to deal with this situation.
I’m a private renter and have been in my house just over a year now. We have an older dog and 2 DC under 2. When we first moved in our NDN were lovely and always spoke when we saw them, never any issues until about 6 months ago. NDN came knocking the door to say the dog was constantly barking. Now me and DP work opposite shifts so dog is only left for short periods of time on his own, even when we go out for the day we make sure someone will be along to let him out/walk him or just stick around for half an hour to give him a fuss and fresh water etc. I apologised and explained our work pattern and said I would try to see if there was something that was bothering him whilst we were out. He is kept in our large kitchen, not caged, with quiet radio on to block outdoor noises as much as possible and make him feel comfortable. Always let out before I go, always has food and water and is walked every single day. Less than a week later he was banging on my door again claiming we are a nuisance and threatening to call the RSPCA and tell them I am abusing my dog and he hoped they would take him away!! Third trimester hormones had me shaking with anger and telling him I had nothing to hide so he could call them and he would be the one looking a fool! Clearly nothing came of that so he has now decided to start hassling my landlord in an attempt to get me evicted. My LL’s are lovely and have met the dog and have told me under no circumstances am I to listen to him but he is becoming a nightmare. He last cornered me in the street with my DC in tow and started yelling at me saying he is getting a solicitor involved and is documenting every time I leave the house and how long I’m gone for . I have put cameras up to watch the dog when I’m out and I can not see any point where he barks for more than a couple of minutes (may be point to add that this seems to be when the other NDN’s 3 dogs are outside as camera has picked up background barking) but this man is making my life hell. I now don’t want to leave the house through fear of him verbally accosting me in the street with my DC, last time my eldest was in floods of tears because he scared her. Probably not a AIBU but more of a WWYD?
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Binkyboo16 · 22/09/2018 22:45
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vandrew4 ·
26/09/2018 06:53
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